Apr 30 2008
Understanding Your Six-Year-Old

I am a first grade teacher and it did not take me long to realize that six-year-olds are indeed complex. I certainly do not yet understand all of those complexities, but the realization that age 6 is a special and even difficult year for children helps me be more patient when my students are displaying that Six behavior that some have claimed to be more challenging than the 2’s and 3’s! As a matter of fact, Dr.Louise Bates Ames has written an entire book on the subject of six- year-olds:
Synopsis: The six-year-old is a complex child, entirely different from the five-year-old. Though many of the changes are for the good — Six is growing more mature, more independent, more daring and adventurous — this is not necessarily an easy time for the little girl or boy. Relationships with mothers are troubled — most of the time Six adores mother, but whenever things go wrong, it’s her fault. It used to be, at Five, that she was the center of the child’s universe; now, the child is the center of his own universe.
Parents need the expert advice of Drs. Ames and Ilg during this difficult year, to explain parent-child relations, friendships with peers, what six-year-olds excel at, how they see the world, what it feels like to be entering the first grade. Children need patience and understanding to help make this transition easier.
This is a great resource for parents and teachers to help us understand and appreciate the phase our children are going through so that we can appropriately support and nurture them. Before you go to the public library, swing by Starbucks, and get lost in this book, click over to Rocks In My Dryer for more WFMW tips!



























